Body Loyalty

Control vs Agency

You don’t have control over your body. For many of our body functions, we are entirely at the mercy of nature. We are as tall as our body manages. If our lungs lose function there is no amount of willpower that will bring that function back. If our brain takes a detour into some dark…… Continue reading Control vs Agency

Habits with a Purpose

I come from a family of storytellers. We would spend hours sitting around telling stories the others weren’t there for or were too little to remember, full of moments where it was clear we were who we were from the beginning. This is the one my family would tell about me: My dad was a…… Continue reading Habits with a Purpose

Dynamic Habits

I have struggled with medical issues my entire life, but until I had my son Atticus I never would have dreamed of calling myself disabled. There’s a reason for that. We are all fed so much bigotry and fear and ableism about what it’s like to be disabled and who that label applies to. We…… Continue reading Dynamic Habits